You know that saying "If Momma ain’t happy, ain’t nobody happy?” Well, I think there’s some truth to that!
Keeping my family happy is partly being happy myself. Which isn’t the easiest since I’m responsible for my {stressful} business, the laundry, cleaning, grocery shopping menus, etc. and all that tends to make me tired and crabby. One thing I do for myself is get a massage every 3-4 weeks. Stress relieving, complete relaxation just for me. I’d recommend it. That is one way I indirectly keep my family happy. Another thing that makes me happy is a quick pick up the house. Everyone helps. That makes me very happy. It means I can relax without looking at a mess and my boys know I need this.
Really, thinking of others is what I do to keep my family happy. Thinking of what my husband and son want for supper, if their clothes are clean, if our home is pleasant. I like to make the most of special days and occasions. Taking care of others and thinking of them always makes for happiness.
The way to a man’s heart, they say, is through the stomach. Really, I think we all enjoy a good meal or treat. For us, a homemade dessert isn’t something we have daily so making a pan of brownies, rice crispy bars, or chocolate chip cookies is a special mid-week treat.

It seems like what we all need at the end of the day is down time. Our down time is what we really look forward to. Dinner and relaxation. Unfortunately every night can’t be like that but when we can, we really look forward to it. Creating special us time in between everything else that needs to be done keeps us all happy. Usually this time is spent in the same room. Occasionally, being happy is being home but doing our own thing.
In the summer we look forward to bike ride nights. We have a great bike trail near our house. Sometimes we come home and make a fire in the backyard.

For Brett, just staying home makes him happy! He always puts up a fuss if we have to go somewhere at night. If we have to go grocery shopping, lately we go as a family because it’s not just a “mom job”. We cruise through the store & get the job done! Everyone can have input on what to buy.
Sometimes I think just planning something fun and surprising my guys with an idea for a special night - like suggesting a bike ride and a picnic - makes them happy. My husband doesn't think of stuff like that yet enjoys it. I like to create a little spontaneous fun!
Really, the happiness of my family is my happiness.
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